Dear Second Son,
On your Third Birthday,
May your next year of life
Be full of Love, Laughter and Learning.
May you flourish and thrive
In your new homeland in the north.
May your boundless exuberance
Discover limitless potential,
As Baby becomes Boy
And fills his parents with pride and joy
On your Third Birthday
(from your Daddy)
Toronto Today
Our Stories
Yesterday was Jerome's Birthday. We were not doing anything special yesterday. I just made a wonderful breakfast in the bed and gave him some nice presents including coffee-makers, next shirt dan framed family picture. I asked Zach to make a hand-painting in the framed family picture and wrote Happy Birthday for Daddy. Jerome brought the framed family picture to his office and showed to his colleagues, everybody was very like it. I got so many compliments from them.
We are going to Bali tomorrow and will meet Leanna and Jo there. Bali trip is for Jerome's birthday too.
For my best friend and husband, Happy Birthday Say. Hope you had a good day yesterday. We love you so much. Thank you for being a good husband and the best daddy in the world. Thank you for these wonderful years together. Love you ...
Galuh
Today is Jake's one week birthday. We ordered a black forest cake to celebrate it but of course Jake would not get any. I suppose he will indirectly get some through my breast milk.
Jake had a circumcision on Friday and it has already healed. His umbilical cord also has come out. And today we brought him to see Dr. Wati, our lovely pediatrician. I felt relieved after seeing her and she said that Jake was fine. She is the best pediatrician in Indonesia (as far as we know). After seeing Dr. Wati, we had our dinner and cake together.
Zach is a good brother, he is not jealous yet. He wants to play with Jake but unfortunately Jake is still too small to play with him. He also wants to share his toys, hugs Jake, kisses him, and at the beginning he did not want to go to school, he just wanted to stay with Jake. He keeps saying "baby Jake is adorable" or "baby Jake is cuuuute" or "cooci cooci coo". We didn't teach him any of these words. He just picked them up on Disney Channel. All of you can see in these pictures how happy he is with his young brother.



Tonight, we also decided to give Jacob a nickname: "Coby" taken from the last syllable of his name. Canadians use first syllables for nicknames but it is the Indonesian to use the last. (Jerome often calls me "'Luh", pronounced Loo) Zach insists on calling him "little Jake" though!
Galuh
Today is my birthday.
Yes, I am 31 years old now. Yesterday, I contemplated what I have done so far and try to remember what my future plans include my career, my family, my kids, and other priorities. I felt that I did not achieve any significant progress yet, I could still not realize most of my dreams. In my birthday, I always feel that I did not do anything and my dreams were far from reached. But I have someone, my lovely husband, who always remind me that I have done so many great things and I have a lovely family. Yes, he is true … I have a wonderful husband who always love and support me, a healthy and smart boy who always lighten up my life, a lovely family who always love me, and an upcoming baby boy who will come in our life in next 2-3 weeks.
Jerome, you are very adorable. You always make my birthday become very special. Thank you for the romantic and wonderful dinner today. That was really surprised me!
Yesterday, Jerome gave a birthday present. An ipod and a bundle of Desperate Housewives’s DVD.
Today, Jerome brought us (Zach and I) to a special dinner at Jakarta Restaurant in Darmawangsa Hotel (the most luxurious hotel in Jakarta). This dinner was very … very … romantic. The hotel has made the place to be very romantic as Jerome’s plan. I were welcomed with a bundle of roses and a card. Jerome knows that I really like red rose.
In the card, I found a poem from Jerome (honey, I really love your poems) :
My beloved wife
And cherished partner in life :
Life is like a rose
Sometimes silky like the petals,
Sometimes cruel like the thorns,
Silky or cruel,
Life is always cool,
As long as it lived with you!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
From : Your Cool Husband, Jerome
We had great food at Jakarta Restaurant. For dessert, Jerome had ordered a special cake for me, a blackforest. Specially, Zach sang a birthday song for me and blew the candle. He was really cute! He asked me how old I am now ….
Sayang, again, thank you for making my birthday be so special.
For Mom and Dad Cheung, Michelle, Vince and Franc, thank you for the greetings and wishing me well. I love and miss you all!
For friends (Lely, Endang, Deb, Anas, Yuli, Dewi Arya, Noer Hikmah, etc) who remember my birthday and gave me a call or send me a text messages, thank you for your love, friendship and being my truly bestfriends.
Galuh, 18 Oct 2005
Zach celebrated his 3rd birthday at Kidzone with 38 friends from his schools and daddy-mommy's friends's kids. After some rigorous playing at the play area, the kids played games and sang songs. Zach had a dinosaur cake and blew out the candle without help.
After lunch, Zach and kids hit the play area again. Zach got lots of presents including a brand new bike from his Mom and Dad.
We put the pictures of Zach birthday party in our album photo folder.
Yes, it's true. I have reached the ripe old age of 40. Many people have commented that I appear much younger than my age. In fact, I was recently in Washington, D.C. where I was asked to prove my age at a bar (the first time in 15 years)! In the west, youth is idolized. Yet I live in an asian country where age is respected. So it seems my youthful looks are not much of a boon since I can neither bask in western idolization nor get asian respect.
My birthday was on a Monday this year and as usual I bought lunch for the office according to Indonesian custom. I ordered my favorite ayam bakar from Ayam Ganthari. Somehow, I feel that custom should be suspended for your 40th.
The highlight of my birthday was the amazing gift from my brilliant and creative wife, Galuh. For months she had chasing friends and family from all the various corners of my life to contribute comments which she compiled into a book for me! It's like a chronicle of my life with pictures of my childhood (stored away faithfully by my Mom all these years), and comments from highschool friends, university buddies, Greenpeace pals, family and NDI collegues. It's a magnificient and moving gift of memories. Thank you, Galuh.
My friend Deb Nolan made the book using Japanese binding. It comes with a beautiful crimson silk bag. Thanks to Deb as well.
Galuh also bought me a very cool replica sword from Lord of the Rings called "Hadhafang, the Sword of Arwen". Here's what swordsmiths say about the sword:
"Hadhafang means Throngcleaver. It belonged to the Elven Idril, who wed a mortal man and bore Earendil, the father of Elrond who weilded Hadrafang at the end of the second age of 'Middle-Earth' during the last alliance of Elves and Men in the great battle against Sauron."
The nice thing about being 40 is that I can recieve weapons as gifts.

